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Whiffing on What Really Matters?

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  • Post published:December 15, 2023
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We are as divided as we let ourselves be. I would love to say that U.S. citizens collectively can be relied on to reason from evidence to a thoughtful if…

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Leadership and Followership

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What the Marines I Led Taught Me This Memorial Day, my neighbor and I—Vietnam era vets—were swapping lies, as we washed cars. By so many metrics, we could hardly be…

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